How to copy/paste properly in Mac OS X?

As a long-time Mac user, I've never EVER used copy/paste for filesystem management. It's always struck me as an odd windows thing.

The "proper Mac way" as I know it is to use a drag with modifier keys. Holding down option while dragging will make a copy, holding down command will force a move if you're dragging to another volume, and holding down command and option will create an alias.

Copy/paste does work, but the paste location will be whatever folder is open, not whichever folder is selected. So, copying the selected file, double-clicking the destination folder, and then pasting will work the way you want it to.

IMO, option-dragging is faster.

The Finder pastes into the folder you're currently in, which you can identify via the window title bar.

It does not paste into the selected folder when in list view (Cmd-2). It only does this in column view (Cmd-3), and that view also changes the current folder when changing the selection.

You can create a Service using Automator that executes ditto or cp based on the previously copied file(s) and the current selection. Setting it to Cmd-V might have unexpected side effects, since this shortcut wouldn't be context-aware: pasting when editing file names wouldn't work anymore